I had the opportunity yesterday to be a guest on Achieve Radio with Nancy Wallace.
The show has been archived and it can be accessed at
http://www.achieveradio.com/archplayer.php?showname=The M
Enjoy your day!
Kim
I had the opportunity yesterday to be a guest on Achieve Radio with Nancy Wallace.
The show has been archived and it can be accessed at
http://www.achieveradio.com/archplayer.php?showname=The M
Enjoy your day!
Kim
I found this beautiful youtube video on my facebook page this morning and felt it was worth adding to my blog as well.
I’m back from spending five wonderful days in our nation’s capital. I had never been there before and was able to see many things I have only dreamt about for many years.
The purpose of my trip was two-fold. The main purpose was to partner with Campus Firewatch and promote fire safety issues on college campuses across the country.
On Thursday we kicked off the day with a press conference which included speeches by Congressmen, Bill Pascrell of New Jersey and Joe Wilson of North Carolina.
The highlight was the speech given by Edye Smith, a parent like me, who lost her son in an off-campus house fire.
The second part of the day consisted of breaking up into groups of fire personnel, current college students, and parents.
My group visited staffers of Cong. Keith Ellison, Sen. Al Franken, and Sen. Amy Klobuchar, all of whom represent my state of Minnesota.
We were able to convey the urgency of continued education on fire prevention, along with the need to offer incentives for landlords to improve their rental units by adding sprinklers.
There are currently two pieces of legislation that address both of these issues.
It was such a personal day for me. To be able to share the life of my daughter and share her picture with people who never knew her, six years after her death, just boggles my mind and brings me such happiness and peace.
My intention is to spend the rest of my life honoring her and to have the opportunity to work to improve the lives of today’s students is very comforting and rewarding.
And, it was also a wonderful opportunity to see first-hand the workings of our government. The fact that most people never have this kind of opportunity was always on my mind throughout the day.
On the second leg of my trip was spent with my daughter Anna and her best friend Stephanie. Roger and I consider Stephanie to be our unoffical third daughter.
We crammed alot of sight seeing into two full days. The weather was absolutely beautiful and we had a grand time. Here is a list of what we accomplished:
toured the Capitol, including the Rotunda
toured the Supreme Court (saw Judge Sotomayor’s new chair).
visited the Smithsonian to see a Lincoln exhibit, dresses of the First Ladies, and Julia Child’s kitchen.
We visited the White House and saw the First Dog, Bo Obama, out on his afternoon walk! (I was really hoping to see Barack or Michelle, but hey I’m happy we did get to see one member of the Obama family!)
We went to the top of the Washington monument where you can see the entire District as well as Virginia and Maryland.
We ate at a favorite hang out of the Obamas, Good Stuff Eatery, and enjoyed the best hamburger and fries I have ever had … and the beer was great too!
We spent most of Sunday the 20th at Arlington National Cemetery; we visited the graves of JFK, Robert and Ted Kennedy.
We also had amazing seats to watch the changing of the guard at the tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
I thought about Liz alot that day because it was the 6th anniversary of her death. It seemed fitting that we should spend the day at Arlington.
As we sat in the trolley waiting to start our tour we noticed that the gentleman sitting right next to me had a large butterfly tattoo on his forearm. We all smiled because we knew it was a sign that Liz was with us in spirit.
We returned home Sunday night, very tired, but very very happy.
To view pictures of the trip click on the links below.
Yesterday Anna and I had the opportunity to do a news story about Liz, the fire that took her life, and our lives since that day.
The main focus was to alert current students who are just moving into off-campus housing.
Getting them to realize and take seriously their own personal safety is a tough sell.
But all we can do is keeping repeating it at every opportunity.
Here is a link to our story:
For most of these past six years, I have known that the experiences I have had were not just for me. They were meant to be shared.
Today I took another step in making that a reality.
My story of “The French Lesson” was published in the Sept/Oct issue of Angels on Earth magazine.
Liz’s picture and story will be read by countless people now and I am so incredibly grateful to God for making it happen.
My plans have just been finalized and I am thrilled to be in Washington DC from September 16-20 as part of Campus Firewatch.
I have joined forces with CFW headed by an angel named Ed Comeau. Along with other parents across the country who have lost a college-aged child to fire, we support Ed’s efforts to educate students, colleges, landlords, and the public on fire safety and prevention.
Our goal is to get all 50 states to declare September as “National Campus Fire Safety Awareness Month.” To date, we have 14 states who have done so. We will be on Capitol Hill on September 17th as part of this effort.
I can’t think of a better place to be – it is yet another way I can honor my precious Elizabeth and for that I am so very grateful and happy.
To learn more about the work of Campus Firewatch, please check out the website at:
http://campus-firewatch.com/spokesperson.html
I’m sure it’s no accident that some of the events happening in my life right now are happening before Anna leaves for Thailand.
She leaves on June 15th … only a little over a month away, and I already miss her!
Last week I found out that my story of Liz’s Letter is going to be included in the September issue of Angels on Earth magazine.
Today I got an email requesting a photo of Liz (no problem) as well as a current photo of me (problem).
Luckily Anna finished work early and as I picked her up I told her I needed her to take a picture of me. Oh, yes and by the way could you do my make-up?
Being the great daughter that she is, she agreed and we worked for about 45 minutes pulling it together.
We came up with the photo on the right side of my blog. It’s me.
Anna not only took the picture, but she downloaded it and sent it to me so I could send it to the photo editor.
I never could have done it without her help … but now I have them and can use them again if the opportunity arises.
I don’t know how long I’ll be able to hold out before I flee the country for Thailand …
I received this video clip in my email today and I can’t quit thinking about it. It’s so powerful – and it hits very close to home.
It is proof, once again, that our actions impact the world. I usually speak about the good that our actions can create. Not today though.
Please watch:
http://www.7rendered.com/life/march/MARCH_sin.html
Watching this video brings back painful memories of Liz. Did she drink and drive? My gut says yes, but she would never admit to it.
Thank God she never killed anyone … but she did have an accident where she was driving and she rolled our car with two of her friends inside. Everyone walked away with bumps and bruises … but it could have been totally different.
In my eyes Liz contributed to her own death.
I will never forget receiving her death certificate some six weeks after 9/20/03. I opened it and read that she had died of smoke inhalation … that was no surprise … but a large, contributing factor to her death was alcohol consumption … sadly, that didn’t surprise me either.
Liz loved to party … she smoked – she drank – she loved to “have fun.” As her mother, it drove me wild with fear and anxiety and no one, and I mean no one, could tell me how to get her to stop.
Minutes before the fire broke out she had been sitting down on the porch talking, drinking and smoking. Mistakes … that had deadly consequences.
Can she be an example of what NOT to do? Yes. Was that her purpose for this life? Yes, I believe so, in part.
Do I forgive her? Yes, always. Does it change the way I feel about her? No, never. Am I still proud of her? Yes, always.
Please pass this video on … it was meant to be shared. Together we CAN make a difference … one person at a time.